pady-oe

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About pady-oe

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  • Birthday October 7

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    Nigeria
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    singing, music, bible study with others.

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  1. I am thankful for music, poetry and peace... The maker made these perfect for humans
  2. here it is... before you can love anyone, you need to first love yourself. treat yourself to a nice movie(go alone), visit the museum, zoo, library(for fun) alone. infact treat yourself to a very expensive restaurant. make yourself happy, only if you achieve this can you make other people happy without it being to get something from them in return. solitude("intentional") helps you think about your flaws and you work on them, it helps you get a good grip on yourself, you literally draw or write out your mind. take that walk alone and see the beauty nature has to offer, you relax your mind doing this. what you get for doing that is you will be happy with yourself, happy with and appreciate how you look, how you talk, you find out how happy you can be or even how wonderful those talents of yours people condemned are. not only that, ultimately, it helps you love people, live above the frustration of trying to get anyone's attention or approval. the scrioture even said "love your neighbor as yourself" which means you need to love yourself first then you can love others like you do yourself.
  3. mercy said NO!...

  4. Not yet, I haven't chosen my lady. Just this time around my mind seem so far from relationship. I'll spend my time harnessing my goodness and rejecting parts of me I do not like. You know everyone's worth the care, only that those who appreciate it deserve it more; for this I'll let my lord work in me to choose the most appropriate woman to accompany me on this adventurous journey of life. Thanks aunt Aisha, I feel like my head will swell and burst from the love you show.
  5. Yes, this is right. And that's why this http://helptogo.com/forum/topic/602074-dont-know-how-to-do-it/ (my topic on a particular lady) had to be silenced forever. Love is a mutual deed.
  6. I support you Nix. You should let go of that heart and pray for a new heart. God gives freely to those who believe and ask for it.
  7. I pray that your heart heal up as fast it can. Amen.
  8. The peace all over again. Hmmmmmmmmmmm.
  9. Is there a way to control the insects to fly after her? What will the flies do once she gets to you, fly back into the congregation? Gets me curious.
  10. Even if there is something like "singleness gene" I believe YOU can be the change, make a better choice in life. Make observe, admit and make changes in you that you think is affecting you in this regard. As for me all things are possible.
  11. smiles, I guess that came from the idea(wrong) that Nigerians depend on government for everything; that's not true, each house in Nigeria is a "government", each house find aw ay of getting potable water by making bore-hole, we generate electricity for ourselves using generator, solar system and inverters, we make the roads that lead to our streets jointly.In the aspect of development, a lot of seminars and workshop and the youths are all fired up with no room for action. Imagine when you have a leader who is meant to bring you ease but instead makes everything work for his good alone... All that is left now is the government... And that's why we pray now, because even the good ones get threatened and some even lose their lives. The good ones whose ambition is not themselves are hindered. If the road be made plane, our craft will be able to take off.
  12. all things are working for my good...

  13. sometimes its hard to stay strong; but whats wrong in staying strong? a lot of times i wish there's a reason or reasons to fall apart bt then i find out i can't handle being not-strong(it has a way of making things get shitty.). if you let it sink in it might take you down more than you are expecting. lol(easy now); i think you are only getting bored of a routine or so. do something stronger aunt. try something that will blow your mind. use one of Joe's seemingly forbidden skills #tellAjoke, #goHunting #goFishing, #takeAstage.
  14. I'm amazed; is it because you are a perfectionist you do these or you do them to please someone who seem not to look that way? I said that because everyone who is your mirror told you you are fine but you seem not satisfied how you look. Dear Joe, the adverse effects of these tampering will make you lose your mind.
  15. @anon a man is not worthless for wanting to be cared for. Of course everyone wants to be pampered and taken care of. If you ask me, I do not see any reason why feeding the family shld be by favouritisim. Its obvious that preparing a very separate meal for the children means they can't cook for themselves or can't eat what the adults would satisfactorily or even at all yet. Get the food ready for eveyone its simple, whether the man feels like helping in the kitchen once in a while or not.