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Should I snoop?

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Kinda worried about my bro.

I found out earlier this week that my brother is seeing this girl, shes coming over from Sweden this weekend and he's booked a hotel room in the city. This is a pretty big deal in my family just because we are weird. 

Anyway, last time he was seeing a girl, I did get worried about his diet, he eats pretty unhealthy, 99% of the food he eats is fast food and he never ever ever has a fruit or vegetable. Anyway, this time I'm worried he might be taking pills. Everyday when he leaves for work I hear rattling in his bag. Do you think I should look in his bag and see what they are?

I'm thinking about this from a been there done it, know its shit and doesnt work perspective. 

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eh.. my pov..odds are if  interfere.. ya get drama  if you leave it alone his case might get worse..but i i recommend find out but don't interfere. just to know if its not a misunderstanding - if it is.. you'll allow urself to find an alternative way of bringing it up.

everyone gets defensive if they are actually hiding something.. so prepare for it but dont be intervening. its ur bro after all.

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10 hours ago, Padre J Roulston said:

What do you plan on doing if you find out he is doing pills? What if they are a prescription for him? 

They're not prescription, I'm sure of it, he hasn't been to the docs for ages. 

7 hours ago, Lano said:

By all means find out ifthey are pillsand not tic tacs. 

He doesn't eat tick tacs, i don't think. It's unlikely.

 

He's gone for the weekend now so can't do anything. Idk what to do, I don't like interfering but he's acting so reclusive at the min. 

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OK. . I'm trying to put myself in that situation and the answers yes, too right I would look.If your so worried about him & your mind will be put at rest then go for it. 

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The real question is what do you do when you find a bunch of prescription narcotics? You know the ones he doesn't have a prescription to? They're really hard to come off of and actually pills are harder to find these days than heroin. Maybe if he gets his pills taken away he gets something stronger just to help him withdraw and accidentally takes a little too much? It's an epidemic. There is now a child born already addicted to opiates every hour in America. When you figure out how to solve this one, we all need the answer...

But yeah I would snoop, and not say anything until he is obviously messed up or withdrawing and then say "what's up? You run out of/take too many pills?" Maybe you can help...  It's going to be a tough one, but hey maybe they are just chicklets. 

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Well I did snoop about a week later, didn't find anything apart from heart burn tablets and ear wax drops. Maybe I was too late, not sure. 

Funnily enough I also snooped on his mail, not really my fault, the dog got hold of it and ripped it open, Well I really regret seeing what that was! So I taped it up and put it outside his room, not a word was said :/ 

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On 3/17/2017 at 4:40 AM, Nix said:

Well I did snoop about a week later, didn't find anything apart from heart burn tablets and ear wax drops. Maybe I was too late, not sure. 

Funnily enough I also snooped on his mail, not really my fault, the dog got hold of it and ripped it open, Well I really regret seeing what that was! So I taped it up and put it outside his room, not a word was said :/ 

Porn?

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Just now, Nix said:

vaginal cream

 

Hahahaha.  That's great.  You could totally mess with him.  Tell him that you support his decision and that you love him no matter what.  

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16 hours ago, Lano said:

Hahahaha.  That's great.  You could totally mess with him.  Tell him that you support his decision and that you love him no matter what.  

lmao I know right! But no, his gf was coming the week before so I assume he got it for her. I'm not gonna make fun of him, he's delicate and I know it would knock his confidence if I knew. And I would rather forget about it

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